40 Painful Messages to a Cheating Boyfriend 2024

Are you looking to send a painful message to a cheating boyfriend, one that is guaranteed to sting? There is no need to write them yourself.

Here are 40 painful text messages for you to send to your cheating boyfriend, all guaranteed to hurt him as much as possible.

Painful Messages to a Cheating Boyfriend

  1. “I hope she tickles your balls the way I do. This is over, you have destroyed the best thing you had going for you. Good luck!”
  2. “You made it pretty clear that I am nothing to you, I can’t believe you cheated on me. I gave you me entire heart and you broke it into a million pieces. I’m so done with you!”
  3. “You hurt me and have made me stronger. You will never get the opportunity to break me again. Goodbye!”
  4. “You’ve hurt me over and over again, cheating is the last straw. I cannot be with you anymore, you’ve lost me forever!”
  5. “How could you do this to me. All the memories we created and shared, for nothing! I never want to see you again. Bye!”
  6. “You should be ashamed and embarrassed for cheating on me. I have been loyal and loving to you, and this is how you treat me. I never want to see you again!”
  7. “I wish I never met you, you don’t deserve to be with me. I thought you would change, I was wrong. I will not make the same mistake twice. I am leaving you, BYE!”
  8. “I loved you with all my heart. I cared for you. I supported and was there for you. How can you be with someone else after all I’ve done? You don’t even have a heart!”
  9. “You are such a coward for cheating. Instead of being a man and telling me to my face, you went behind my back. What a turn off! I recommend you don’t treat your future relationships this way.”
  10. “This relationship is damaged and there’s nothing we can do about it. You shouldn’t have cheated on me, I would have done anything and everything for you. You ruined it. I hope you learn your lesson.”

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  1. “I never thought I’d be the one to say this, it’s over. I will never be in a relationship with you again. You should think before you do things. I hope she’s worth it, you just lost me for good.”
  2. “I raved about you to everyone, I told them how amazing you are. That was before I found out. You thought I wouldn’t find out you cheated on me, the joke is on you, you’re done, BYE!”
  3. “I hope you realize you lost something special. You will never find someone like me ever again. Your infidelity did this to our relationship, I hope you’re happy.”
  4. “Was she worth it? You threw it all away for a few moments of pleasure, how pathetic of you. If you used your brain you wouldn’t have done this.”
  5. “I will never forgive you, you have broken my trust. You were the one person I could count on. Not anymore! You are out of my life permanently.”
  6. “You have turned everything in my life upside down. You have hurt me more than words can express. I hope nobody cheats on you so you don’t ever have to experience how bad it feels!”
  7. “I thought you were the one for me. I wanted to be with you forever, why did you have to go behind my back and cheat? You made me feel like I was crazy when I asked you about it. You could not even be honest about your dishonesty.”
  8. “I hate you, I will never forgive you, how could you do this to me? We were supposed to be together forever, you’re the worst. I feel bad for the next person who dates you!”
  9. “You were my dream, now you are my nightmare. I used to smile when I thought of you, now I dread it. You have broken my heart and I will never trust you again.”
  10. “You are a cheater, I knew you would never change. I blame myself for giving you another chance. I was too nice, you took advantage of me. I’m done with you.”
  11. “Roses are red, violets are blue, cheating is horrible, I can’t believe you. Violets are blue, roses are red, I hate you forever, until you’re dead.”
  12. “You have betrayed me, I am beyond upset. Clearly you have no respect, for yourself or others. Never talk to me again, we are done forever!”
  13. “I hate you so much! I cannot believe what you have done, the ultimate disrespect. Only a real gutter rat cheats. Never contact me again!”
  14. “I thought I could trust you, I thought I could count on you. I was wrong, you have hurt me. You are no longer in my life. Bye forever!”

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  1. “After all I have done for you, all the times I have been there for you, this is how you repay me…by cheating? You are awful, you are dead to me.”
  2. “I remember when I would not return your texts. You told me you were upset. You cheating is so much worse. You are a snake. Don’t ever call me again!”
  3. “I don’t wish how I feel on you – betrayed, violated, hurt, disappointed, angry, upset, scared, hateful, vengeful, yet mostly sad.”
  4. “You are not a man, you are a mouse. While whispering all those nice things to me you were with someone else. You disgust me!”
  5. “I’m not surprised you cheated, I guess it’s better now than later. You didn’t deserve any of the love I gave you. Goodbye!”
  6. “I am not surprised. I knew from the start you could not be trusted. You are sleazy and slippery. Once a cheater always a cheater. Lose my number!”
  7.  “You have made the biggest mistake of your life. You thought with the wrong head. What we had was real, something you will never find again. Good luck, don’t contact me!”
  8. “You are nothing to me, the thought of you sickens me. I trusted you, I believed in you. You destroyed everything, our connection, our bond. Why? I hope you are happy, good bye!”
  9. “No matter how many times you deny it, I know the truth. Ever since you lied when I asked you about, I have been preparing myself to leave you. Now is that time. BYE!”
  10. “I guess I wasn’t the one for you, that is why you cheated. I guess she is really special, and worth ruining our relationship over. Now that we are not together, consider that.”
  11. “You are mean spirited. You betrayed me, the ‘one you love.’ You have taken advantage of me, and done the unthinkable. I am heartbroken, never speak to me again.”
  12. “You have moved from everything in my world to nothing in my world. It seems like you don’t care that you have crushed me. I cannot wait till the day I get over you.”
  13. “I have terrible thoughts about hacking you up into little pieces, like you have done to my heart. You are nothing to me. Goodbye!”
  14. “You are incorrigible. You lack values, and morals, and cannot be trusted. You have hurt me beyond belief. I truly misjudged you.”
  15. “After everything we been through, all the years we have been together, you betray me like this? My world is shattered, and we will never be what we said we would be. Goodbye!”
  16. “I hope I am being clear, we are completely over! I never want to speak to you again. You have hurt me irreparably. You are dead to me!”

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Painful Message to a Cheating Husband

I am heartbroken to know that you have cheated on me. After all the years together, good times and bad times, it is a terrible way for things to end. You are selfish and clearly, you did not consider my feelings or our kid’s feelings. Apologizing is not going to fix anything, only time will heal. I hope you are happy.

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Farzana Tajnin
Farzana Tajnin

Hi, I’m Zana, the proud co-owner of this amazing website. I live in NYC, studied relationship psychology at NYU, and got my dating and relationship coaching certification at MI.

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