40+ Best Long Distance Relationship Gifts to Keep the Spark Alive

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Keeping the spark alive can be a challenge the longer time marches on and you haven’t come any closer to your long-distance lover.

Read on below and discover dozens of the best long-distance relationship gifts to keep your fire blazing!

Cute Gifts

Our picks for the best cute gifts for long-distance relationships include:

TeeTurtle | The Original Reversible Turtle Plushie

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The TeeTurtle is one of the cutest long-distance relationship gifts you can give your significant other.

Just look at the thing!

Only a stone-hearted witch wouldn’t love that adorable little plushie turtle.

Magnetic Cute Dance Cat Airpod Holder


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When it comes to cute gifts for your long-distance lover, what is a better idea than these adorable dancing cat magnetic earbud holders?

This way, your partner never misplaces their earbuds and can always talk to you no matter what.

Burton & Burton Toby The Toad Frog Coffee Mug

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The Toby the Toad Frog coffee mug is one of the cutest things your long-distance relationship heartthrob could drink their steaming morning beverages from.

And, every time they look at it they’ll think about how sweet you are for sending it to them.

That said, there are tons of great designs if they aren’t into adorable cuddly cutsey frogs!

Tucketts Allegro Toeless Non-slip Grip Socks

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Not everyone’s idea of cute is exactly the same.

For those Abby from NCSI types, these toeless non-slip grip socks are as cute as things get!

Plus, just think of all those foot selfies she can send you!? Yikes!

Ekouaer Pajamas

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What can we say about these cute pajamas from Ekouaer?

They are simp totes adorbs, ’nuff said!

If your partner cherishes comfort, these threads should be on your list of long-distance relationship gifts to buy.

Hatchling Dragon Lovers Garden Statue

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For star-crossed dragon-kin furries, few long-distance relationship gifts are more perfect than these hatchling dragon lovers garden statue (“garden” my ass, this thing will end up on your lover’s nightstand, or computer desk!).

Funny Gifts

Our picks for the best funny gifts for long-distance relationships are:

Hollabears Original Shawty U Fine

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The best funny gifts are often the ones you can put on a shelf (literally) and look at as often as you want (and laugh as often as you want).

The “Shawty U Fine” bear from Hollabears is one of the most adorable stuffed animals you can get for your long-distance partner’s shelf.

The best part is that it works for either sex, in a pinch (though, technically, shawty was originally a term reserved for females).

I Love You Coffee Mug for Her

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With so many coffee-drinking gogo-juice fans out there, funny coffee mugs are one of the best gifts for a quick pick-me-up (literally and figuratively, incidentally)

This pink cup with print is hilarious for your long-distance girlfriend (or wife), especially if one of you has a potty mouth.

However, if she’s a Sunday school teacher you may want to pass this one over for the next gift.

Love Mop Premium Cotton Sex Towel

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The Love Mop is a premium cotton “sex” towel. In other words? It’s a cum rag.

Even more, technically it’s a great gift for either party. Further, it works as a gag gift as well as a practical one.

Funny Romantic Joke Card

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If you’re looking for a quick and funny long-distance relationship gift idea, there are few better options than picking out a funny romantic joke card (like this one).

If nothing else, it will surely put a smile on his or her face when they pull it out of their mailbox and open it up!

Custom Stemless Wine Glasses

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These custom stemless wine glasses are perfect for your long-distance girlfriend or wife, especially if she’s into succulents and/or wine (major bonus points if she’s into both).

Maad Romantic Novelty Toilet Paper

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Do we even need to further explain this Maad Romantic Novelty Toilet Paper?

Or does its name, and picture, pretty much sum up the beauty of it?

Yeah. It’s perfect. We think so too!

Cheap Gifts

Our choices for the best cheap gift ideas for your long-distance partner include:

Scented Candles Gift Set

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A scented candle gift set was never wasted (unless you count the ones you buy for your great-grand-aunt Geraldine every Christmas).

Sending scented candles to your long-distance partner is like sending them a “set the mood, however you want, whenever you feel like it, baby” kit.

Stainless Steel Heart Shape Locket and Bracelet With Initial

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If it’s a simple piece of jewelry you want to send her, but you’re on a budget, no problem!

We’ve got you covered with this Stainless Steel Heart Shape Locket and Bracelet with her initial on it.

She’ll love it!

Taylors of Harrogate Assorted Specialty Teas Box

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When you’re dating someone online, and you want to manifest more intimate moments, try this trick: send him/her a bock of these assorted teas, and buy one for yourself too.

Now, you can drink the same thing at the same time, and discuss it.

POOF. Mind-blown, right? We know, we know.

Do you want to hear even more?

You could even send them a coffee cup.. and but one for yourself that matches!

Then you’d be drinking the same thing, at the same time, from the same cup! Ha!

9 Herb Window Garden

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For lovers of nature, few cheap gifts are as thoughtful of the sender and enjoyable for the recipient.

With this kit, your partner can grow 9 herbs on their windowsill, and you two lovebirds can pretend you’re raising children together.

Wireless Charging Station 3 in 1 Foldable

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In case the other half of your long-distance relationship is dealing with a quick-draining battery on their cellphone, few gifts are as practical as this wireless charging station (which happens to have a highly convenient foldable 3-in-1 design.

Then you’ll never have to worry about their phone going dead in the middle of the conversation again.

Death Wish Coffee Dark Roast Grounds

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Is your long-distance relationship partner keeping drowsy during those all-night phone conversations?

If so, give them the gift of Death Wish Coffee and wake them right up.

A cup of two of these sweet go-go juice and they’ll be up as long as you wish!

Simple Gifts

Our selections of simple gift ideas for you to consider sending to your long-distance partner include:

Amazon Gift Card in a Reveal

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There are few gifts simpler, yet more thoughtful, than an Amazon gift card in a reveal.

This way, she/he can buy themselves whatever they want (no feeling awkward and accepting gifts they don’t really like/want).

I Wrote a Book About You

I Wrote a Book About You — A fun, fill-in-the-blank book.

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One of my similar products, the “I Wrote a Book About You” book is a blank canvas that you fill out and send to the person you like (in this case, your long-distance partner).

Some of these books are completely blank, while others (like this one) are fill-in-the-blank, which makes them rather amusing (and sweet).

Yummy Smelling Candle With Witty Message

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There are tons of witty candles that smell amazing to choose from out there.

This candle, for example, says “you’re the best thing I’ve ever found on the internet”.

It really doesn’t get any better than that for standard long-distance relationship gifts!

Bonsai Starter Kit

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A Bonsai starter kit is a great gift for a long-distance relationship for so many reasons.

It represents something that shouldn’t be, but something that somehow found a way anyhow (like you and your partner finding each other online, and sticking together).

Bonsai takes years to grow and care for, just like your relationship if you want it to last.

70mm Aperture 400mm AZ Mount Astronomical Refracting Telescope

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For star-crossed lovers, what is a better gift than an actual telescope?

With telescopes, you may gaze upon the very same stars and the exact same time (let alone the Moon, or constellations).

You can even talk on the phone while doing so.

Matching Gifts

Our picks for the best matching gifts for you and your long-distance significant other are:

Mr. and Mrs. Coffee Mugs

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Matching coffee mugs are one of the first steps to long-distance relationship matrimony.

Once you have matching mugs to sip your morning Joe from, the knot might as well be tied because it’s only a matter of time.

Lindt Gourmet Chocolate Truffles Gift Box

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The Lindt Gourmet Chocolate Truffles Gift Box is an amazing gift to buy two of (or ten), send your partner one (or five), and keep the other one (or five).

That way, you can sample them at the same time and share your thoughts.

And, hey! If you buy matching mugs first, you can wash down the truffles with go-go juice from them!

Inspirational Morse Code Bracelets

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If you’re looking for a simple but matching gift that you can both carry with you wherever you go (work, school, and traveling), consider these inspirational morse code bracelets.

With this simple but thoughtful gift giving idea you’ll be able to keep your “partner” and their message near to you always.

Luna Bean Keepsake Hands Casting Kit

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The Luna Bean Keepsake Hands casting kit is an amazing long-distance relationship gift if you approach it correctly.

First, you need to cast your own hand, and then send the kit to your long-distance lover.

When they get it, they may cast their hand, and put it together with yours.

That way, you’ll be holding hands for eternity (or until someone smashes the statue).

Sleep Headphones Bluetooth Headband

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If the other half of your long-distance relationship lives in a noisy/busy environment, and you want to send them a truly thoughtful gift, make it these sleep headphones.

That way you know they’ll be able to get some peaceful sleep (and have plenty of energy for staying on the phone with you all day, afternoon, evening, and night).

Jstyle 4Pcs Couple Necklace Bracelets Matching Set

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Wearing matching jewelry in a long-distance relationship is normal.

That’s why this Jystyle couples’ necklace and bracelet set is a great consideration for your potential long-distance relationship gifts list.

Special Gifts for Him

Some of the best ideas for special gifts for him include:

Capsule Letters Message in a Bottle

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When it comes to long-distance gift-giving is an amazing idea, especially if you send it to your house first and then fill the capsules with actual handwritten messages for him.

That way, he has a bottle full of notes from you he can open one by one on bad days.

Cell Phone Stand with Wireless Bluetooth Speaker and Anti-Slip Base

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Long-distance relationships wouldn’t exist as they do today if it weren’t for the advancement of cellphones and wireless Bluetooth technology.

That’s why this cell phone stand with a built-in anti-slip base and Bluetooth speaker is a great long-distance gift for your partner.

Michael Kors Men’s Slim Runway Stainless Steel Quartz Watch

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If your online boyfriend seems to have an issue with time, perhaps it’s time to pick him out an extra thoughtful gift… like this stainless steel slim runway quartz watch.

He’ll never be confused about what time it is again, and it’ll look great on his wrist the next time you video chat!

Whiskey Decanter Set with Globe Glasses

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When you’re dating a drinker, a personalized gift like this gorgeous whiskey decanter set with globe glasses is sure to be perfect for your special someone. Plus, on the next visit, you’ll have somewhere to store your liquor!

Men’s Slim Wallet with Money Clip

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Wallets and money clips are generally speaking typically great gifts for men.

Sure, they aren’t exactly unique gifts, but they are sure to be appreciated (and used).

If you want to spice things up, leave your long-distance boo a secret love note somewhere hidden in the wallet before you send it off to them.

BUSB Waterproof Beard Trimmer for Men

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If you’ve been giving him hints, and he just doesn’t get it… and you just won’t give it up… try sending him a beard trimmer.

Then, the next time you suggest that he trims himself up for a proper selfie, he won’t have a valid excuse to say no!

If you want to be really sweet, send him some shaving cream and aftershave to go with it!

Special Gifts for Her

Some of the best ideas for special gifts for her are:

Gold Dipped Rose

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Some roses are red, some roses are blue, and some are dipped in gold and mailed straight to you (Yeah, we’re copyrighting that poem, so don’t even think about stealing it)!

After one quick look at this 24K gold dipped real organic rose, you’ll see why it’s one of the most special gifts for her you can conjure up online and send straight to her doorstep.

Seriously. You want to talk about making a girl feel special? How $%*&ing more special can something be than a real organic rose dipped in real gold!?

Women’s Summer Casual Sleeveless Mini Printed Vest Dresses

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This cute little number is sure to please your long-distance love if they are into summer dresses.

Just make sure you pick the right color! Otherwise, she’ll love it (and more than likely be thrilled to jump on a video call and show it off to you).

If you do a lot of video chatting you should already have a sense of her style, but if you don’t; ask her what her favorite colors are, and what style of dresses she would buy if money wasn’t an issue.

Listen to what she describes, and buy that dress if you want to be the Man…

Victoria’s Secret Gift Card

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Do we really need to explain why a Victoria’s Secret Card is a special/romantic gift?

Or how perfect for your long-distance love?

Hello: she’s going to use the card for lingerie… and then put it on, and take pictures, maybe video chat if you’re lucky, and send them to you!

If you want her to feel special, make one of these cards your next long-distance gift to her.

THE COMFY Teddy Bear Quarter-Zip

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This comfortable teddy bear suit is sure to put a smile on her face, and warm her heart too!

With this comfy teddy bear pull-on, she’ll be able to Netflix and Chill any ol’ time.

It could also make for some rather interesting selfie sessions… if you know what we’re sayin’?

Burt’s Bees Gift Set

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If it’s pampering she wants, or deserves (which she obviously does), Burt’s Bees offers one of the best gift sets around.

It comes with five different products that she’ll love treating herself with.

You may even get some sexy selfies out of the mix if you play your cards right (because Burt’s Bees is some really good stuff and is known to make women feel extremely pampered and gorgeous)!

Inspirational Bracelets for Women

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When you want to be there to remind her of how great she is, how capable, one-of-a-kind, or otherwise, but are hundreds or thousands of miles away, opt for an inspirational bracelet with your message instead.

Everytime she looks down, or raises her hand, and sees it, she’ll hear you’re voice telling her the same words, repeating the same message.

If you’re trying to be supportive to a long distance girlfriend or wife that’s going through a rough time, it’s the perfect gift.

Cleverfy Aromatherapy Shower Steamers

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Another amazing gift for her is the Cleverfy Armoatheraphy Shower Steamers set.

Just because you can’t be there with her to have an erotic shower, doesn’t mean she can’t have one without you – using your gift!

Sure, it isn’t the most romantic gift, but it’s far from the least. This way, every time she gets naked and wet, she’ll be thinking of you… as the hot steamy water is running over her nude body.

Yeah, dude. It’s like that… so, what are you waiting for?

Godiva Chocolatier Chocolate Gold Gift Box

Godiva Chocolatier Chocolate Gold Gift Box, Assorted, 105 pc.

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This giant box of Godiva is known as the Chocolatier Chocolate Gold Gift Box… and daaaamn, it is surely full of some tasty stuff!

This particular pack includes 104 pieces of gourmet chocolate. That’s a whole lot of fruity, nutty, cream fillingy, milk, white, and dark chocolatey long-distance fun!

Your long-distance woman is going to go crazy over this gift if she has a sweet tooth (who are we kidding… what woman doesn’t like chocolates?)!


What Surprise Can I Give My Boyfriend Long Distance?

woman writing a letter

Your long-distance boyfriend is going to be thrilled with anything you send him. That said, anything that you may have touched is also a great gift and will make him feel closer to you (especially if it smells like you). If you want to go the extra mile, simply include a sweet message in the package, hand-written, regardless of what the main gift is. He’ll love the personal touch.

What Should I Gift My Long Distance Girlfriend?

The perfect gift for your long-distance girlfriend varies depending on her personality. You need to know what she enjoys (and hates) as well as what she already has before you start looking for the best thing to buy her. One idea is a digital picture frame, with love letters and pictures of all your special moments (or screenshots/message logs) programed on a slide show. Other gift ideas for a long-distance girlfriend included anything with a personal touch. For example, your T-shirt, with your scent on it, is a great idea!

How Do I Pamper Her Long Distance Relationship?

chocolate truffle box

Pampering her with long-distance gifts is an easy feat. What isn’t as easy, however, is sending the perfect gift. Further, how many times can one manage to send a sentimental gift that’s literally perfect? The key is to focus on quality over quantity. Shower her with chocolates and flowers as much as you like, but it’s the truly thoughtful long-distance gifts that she receives that she’ll remember for the rest of her life.

How Do I Make My Long Distance Partner Feel Special?

A long-distance relationship makes it harder to make your partner feel special, because you can’t do all those little things you would in person (like make them breakfast in bread, run their bath, or rub their feet). What you can do is send them a unique gift like an AirBNB gift card so they can book themselves into a weekend spa for some pampering.

What Is the Best Gift For a Long Distance Relationship?

couple exchanging gifts

The best long-distance relationship gift depends on the person you’re dating, what they’re into, and of course, you. Your tastes, your budget, and the point of your relationship (how far it’s developed) also need to be considered. Chocolates, roses, clothes, devices, eletronics, coffee mugs, figurines, and gift cards (such as Amazon, Starbucks, or AirBNB) are just a few choices.

What Does a Man Want In a Long Distance Relationship?

Depending on the man you’re in a relationship with, he could want various different things/outcomes. He could want stability, someone to share his time/mind with, a partner to have kids with, or simply someone to spoil with gifts. Just keep in mind that there’s as much of a possibility that he’s bored and dating online because he’s too lazy or insecure to do so locally as there is that he’s really prince charming.

How Do I Impress My Long Distance Relationship?

woman receiving a gift

There is no black and white answer to how you can impress your long-distance boyfriend or girlfriend. Rather, if you focus on being yourself, and representing the real you, you’ll find out what sort of match you really are. That said, being yourself is impressive… as are gifts, surprise visits, lots of video chatting, and knowing how to listen as well as be engaging in conversation.

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